Cell phone usage is getting out of control. What I mean is the loud, boorish attitude that has seemingly pervaded all of the mobile phone-carrying society. The irritating ring tones and the incessant yakking spare nothing; not even meetings, funerals, and presentations. You think I’m kidding? A lot of people can attest to this sad fact. Executives, salesmen, doctors, lawyers, and priests know what I’m talking about.

From streets to movie theaters, from classrooms to conference rooms, from diners to churches, rude cell phone users are anywhere. They practically forget or totally abandon basic courtesies. A lot of stories have emerged that attest to what I’m talking about. My favorite so far is the one about a panel member who was doing a presentation. His mobile phone rang and he immediately stopped and answered his phone! It’s about time that we lay down the law about proper cell phone etiquette.

A recent survey says that the worst habit of cell phone users is carrying out loud conversations in public. In addition, people get victimized by inconsiderate cell phone users at least once a day. But let me make one thing perfectly clear. Cell phones are not to blame for this one. People are. I think it’s the right time to seriously think about proper cell phone manners. Here are some dos and don’ts.

Don’t take a personal call using your mobile phonein the middle of a business meeting. This rule also includes meetings with co-workers or subordinates, and job interviews. You’ll be surprised to know how many job applicants flunk this one.

Remember to keep at least 10-feet away from anyone during a cell phone conversation. We don’t want to know the banalities of your life, really. Inform all your callers that you’re talking on a cellular phone, so they’ll know to expect distractions or disconnections. And keep all conversations short and sweet.

Do not hold a phone conversation inside concert halls, elevators, libraries, churches, memorial parks, infirmaries, cafes, museums, or any other enclosed public spaces. And also, never ever hold an intimate phone conversation while in public. If you really have to, get an earpiece, so that you can control the volume of your voice.

Don’t set your ringing tone to play Flight of the Bumblebee every time your phone goes off. There are a lot of better ring tones. Grow up! Also, forget about multi-tasking with a mobile phone. Stop making calls while shopping, walking the dog, waiting in line or doing other personal business. Lastly, inform everyone that you’re now adopting improved cell phone etiquette, and ask them to do the same. It’s very important.

Technology and good manners can live in peace together. Just ask the millions of Internet users, who’ve adopted the rules for email etiquette. You can always use the vibrate function, use voice mail, or go to a secluded area before making a call. All it takes is a little bit of consideration.

Azlan Irda is the co-founder of http://www.AgeComputer.com, your cell phone superstore. Visit our website to find all the cell phone and accessories you will ever need.

– Azlan Irda